Dave Matthews Can Go Fuck Himself

I was a little nervous on my first day of radiation treatment. I'd tried to find some answers on the Internet so I'd have a sense of what to expect but like chemo, the answers varied wildly. I had the ultimate trust in my doctor, but I was still a little anxious. I'd be doing this for a while. Would I get sick like some people? Would I get headaches? Would I be exhausted?

They ushered me into the room I'd be visiting every day for the next couple months. It was a dimly-lit room with a large machine in the center. It had a raised platform I'd be laying on, and a huge arm with a camera-looking thing at the end that reminded me a little of the X-ray machine at the dentist's office.

Here's how it would work: I'd lay down on the platform and they'd affix the mask by literally screwing it down to the table. That'd ensure that the right area would get treatment every time. I'd lay there incredibly still for the 10-15 minutes it'd take for the scanner to do its thing and that would be it.

Sounded easy enough. I got on the table and got comfortable. They screwed the mask to the table and told me not to move. Fine. Then, the nurse asked me if I wanted to listen to any music. I can take just about anything for a short period of time with the exception of Indian. "How's Dave Matthews?"

"Fine," I said. At that point I was still nervous and just wanted to get it over with.

I've never been all that fond of Dave Matthews. There's the country fiddle hoedown violin thing, the hippie/frat boy fans, but most of all, it's that yodeling yelp of his that sends shivers down my spine. It's what they play when you call Hell and you're put on hold. I'm sure the guy's totally cool and would be fun to hang out and drink a beer with, but that yodel. That yodel.

So the music starts and Dave's yodeling away. "Ants Marching." Here come the violins. I'm laying there patiently waiting for the treatment to start. It isn't. Meanwhile, Dave's fiddle player is really throwing his back into it and givin' her hell. Still no activity from the radiation arm.

After about four songs I see someone approach me from the corner of my eye. "We're having some problems with the machine," she says in a soothing voice as Dave brings it on home. "Are you comfortable? We'll start in just a minute." Then she leaves.

That's when it hits me: I am literally strapped to a table and being forced to listen to Dave Matthews and there's not a goddamn thing I can do about it.

Eventually the machine gets going. I don't feel a thing as it whines and whirs around me, clicking and clacking. It helps take my mind off the yodeling that launched a thousand hacky sacks plays in the background.

Finally, it's over. I'm released from my cage and I sit up. The first thing I ask is if I can bring my own CD next time.

"Sure!"

The Mask

While the chemo continued to course through me, it was time to prepare for round 2: radiation. The thoughts on my radiation treatment had evolved as the summer progressed. At first, the doctor was leaning toward one massive dose. But the more he read and learned about pineal tumors, it seemed as if a lower dose on a more consistent basis would be the best course of treatment. I'd go three days a week for thirty minutes for roughly 9 weeks.

The first step was to get me fitted for a mask. The purpose of the mask was to make sure my head was held in precise place during the treatments. Though the radiation can be programmed with precision -- they could trim the eyelashes on a gnat -- it was crucial that my head stay in a stable position while I was getting zapped or else I'd wind up shitting my pants whenever I heard a doorbell. Being a fan of Halloween, I agreed.

So, the mask. I laid on a table similar to the ones I laid on for an MRI. The attendant told me to get comfortable. "In a few minutes, another nurse will come out with the mask, which will be form-fitted to your face," she said. "I just want you to know that the mask will be extremely hot." I gave her a look. "It won't burn you, but the plastic is very hot."

She went on a bit, throwing in another couple "very hots" in there for good measure. Then, out of the corner of my eye, I saw someone emerge from a side door with what looked like a droopy white towel. They were walking towards me, and fast.

"Okay, here's the mask," she said. "And remember, it's hot."

I know. I know it's fucking hot. You told me ten times, lady.

The attendant was about a foot away.

I grimaced a little, expecting to feel roaring hot plastic coating my face.

"Okay, here we go. Stay still."

Ohshitohshitohshitohshit.

It felt like a warm towel.

I was glad it didn't burn me, but in a way I felt cheated. I mean, here I was, expecting to get burned and it was nothing. I probably looked like Han Solo, mouth open and encased in Carbonite. How many masks looked like that, I wondered.

Drain the Blood

Every time I'd go in for chemo they'd do a blood draw. I'm not a big fan of needles, but I did okay. What began to scare me were the results. More specifically, my white blood cell count.

As the treatment went on, my white count got lower and lower. That's a problem, because white blood cells fight infection and disease. The lower my count got, the more important it was that I avoid infection and exposure to people who were sick. Luckily, I was undergoing chemo in late summer, so there weren't too many bugs floating around. No rampant flu outbreaks or anything like that. But I still had to wear a mask over my face when I drove home after treatment.

It came to a head in early September. I was at the tail end of chemo, but by then my white cell count was the lowest it had been, and I needed to get the doctor's okay in order to go see the Night Marchers - a band I really liked - in a couple weeks.

With cancer, your goals are often very minor ones. Being able to walk to the end of the driveway to pick up the trash cans on trash day. Taking the dogs to the end of the block, then eventually two blocks when I took them for a walk. All were small victories in the battle.

But the Night Marchers show in the fall was a huge one for me. The band's lead guitarist and singer is John Reis, who has been in multiple awesome bands that have been mathematically and ergonomically proven to be awesome by all sorts of experts. I'd been a fan of his bands for years, and when the Night Marchers -- his latest band -- came to town on their first tour, it was A Big Deal.

Unfortunately, that date coincided with my diagnosis of the brain tumor. So there was that. Still, the show was incredible and I had no worries, thoughts or concerns about the future at that point. It was a very uplifting and positive experience.

Now they were coming back. Even though I still had radiation treatment ahead of me, it was a fitting bookend to the whole cancer experience. But there was the white count to contend with.