Whine, Cry, Bitch, Moan and Complain

One day, Smokey Joe added a new topic to his repertoire. Entitled "Everything Sucks," he'd go on and on, bitching and complaining about the nurses, the chairs, the weather, and the general state of things. I didn't say anything for a while, hoping he'd get the hint and shut the hell up. Of course he didn't.
He'd just found out that he had an estimated six months to live. That sucked. That was unfair. And so on.

I usually start my days by watching the morning news. On this particular morning, there was a story about a young father of two that was working on some electical lines that fell to his death. It was terrible -- he'd just started the job, and now his two kids would grow up without a dad.

I told Smokey Joe about this. He didn't really have a reaction other than 'what's your point?'

"The point," I began, "is that this guy didn't have a chance to take his kids to the zoo one last time, to go fishing with his buddy, to kiss his wife one last time or settle his affairs. He didn't have a chance to tell people how much they meant to him."

"You, however, do. You have at least six months to get the gang together for one last poker night. To call your kid and tell him how proud you are of him. To watch the Three Stooges. To eat nothing but Doritos all day. You have time. This guy didn't. You can spend those six months pissing and moaning about how unfair everything is or you can make the most of it."

I wanted to add that I could probably speak for the rest of the room by saying that it'd be great if he'd start now by shutting the hell up, but I didn't. I don't know if he was stunned, hurt or shocked that I'd spoken more than two words to him. But he shut up.